INDIAN BOYS FOR SALE !!!

INDIAN BOYS FOR SALE !!!

                                                   
                                                       (by boys- implies potential grooms in the Indian Society)

‘Sanskriti’ is a bright young kid, a scholar at academics, first in many extracurricular events, at a forefront in out of school events, equally good in performance in College and Yes she turns out to be a Doctor.

All family is really jolly and proud at the upbringing they gave her and the beautiful she has turned out to be.

There’s other background to her life – Parents are constantly worried for her future. Relatives and neighbours and friends are even mre concerned people on the prospects of this girl, who aspires to be independant soon.

But, what part of future ?? are they really talking about ---

·         Whether she is going to pursue her M.D. ?

·         Whether she plans on going abroad for higher studies ?

·         Which hospitals is she looking up for a job ?

And, the answer is None of These questions even occur to them.

[P.S. These are the sort of questions reserved for the Son of a family]

So, what are the so-called WELL-WISHERS really concerned about ?? Lets see.....

·         How old is your daughter?

·         When is she finishing studies, she must be marriage age by now na ?

·         Have you started looking places (for grooms) for her, or I have a few in mind, should I put them over ?

·         Won’t she be too older(for marriage) for her age, if she pursues further studies ?

·         Have you started saving for her Marriage, its not far away ?

·         Dear, kitni badi ho gayi hai, aur kitna padhegi ?

Blaining  bla.....and it never ends

SICK !!!

Girls’ life is only for getting married.

Being educated and desire to remain independent doesn’t matter, because she has to anyways quit her house, and enter a new life, and if the new family is supportive only then it’s of some use.

Whatever she is, however talented....her marriage will call for some form a dowry, so she is always a burden to her family...who raised her only to give away, and to top that added perks to the grooms family can be a Bungalow, a Car or anything the father wishes to gift his only beloved daughter.

Aren’t the boys selling themselves to the Girl’s family by taking the perks....then why is still the girl a looser at all fronts ???

It pains !!!!
 

to see the disparity,
to see the two, three, many faces of India.....
to see the slums, the streets, the kids on the road, the eyes of the old, the state of the hospitals, the offices....on One and the Glory on the other.....
to see Its us to blame when we exploit the poor, throw our used on the open, to break the traffic rules, to fight with our brethren on religion.....

Lets do our part well - teach a kid, feed a hungry, put the waste in the dustbin, obey the rules - don look if the one besides you breaks them, let him look upto to you, so that he too learns to follow them next time.....

When we do our part well, the officials are free to do what is more essential rather than taking care of your mean things.....help them do their job, when they wrong, correct them by doing yours......lets work together !!!

that's called Independence...Jai Hind !!!!

Flamboyant showcases of the Riches - is the sickness gripping many Indians ????

a middle class family going to attend a upper class wedding party....the ladies of the house is then seen to have the onus of draping all that is possible and all that is available to hide the mediocrity and pretend to be fitting into the exuberance...Why is the necessity ? This attitudinal shallowness of the society ?
All these wasted efforts and money on the fakes should to channeled for a better purpose, since everyone knows its of no use otherwise.Imagine how much time & money will be saved, the tensions to be best or better than the other will no longer exist, plentiful breathing space and freedom and comfort.

But it is for all the classes to understand that life exists beyond display. The class should not be given so much importance, rather relations, friendships, the feelings are the best things to judge if at all the human need be, and not the clothes, cars, houses like externalities.

 Biggest influence of the brainless Woods - Bollywood, Hollywood - imitation is nonsensical since their motive and purpose of life is non comparable to us ordinary simple people

 Having ambitions is a good thing, struggling to achieve those is the answer...and pretending to have it is a farce with oneself.


- Be Sane

What is this blog all about

Our lives always gripped with questionsssss....entangled into wondering where we going ????

let alone some dayzzz are fruitful and some utter wastes,,,this sort of tumbleturning is Universal though....


but to search and give meaning to our enclaves some pondering over the tiny little things, we see around, daily and casually without having time for a second thought...here is an effort to remind ourselves a different facet to life...apart from our what i consider relatively privileged lives,,,,,